Am I a carer?

“I just help them.”
You might be a carer.

Lots of people look after or support someone without ever using the word carer. It might just feel like what you do for your mum, dad, partner, child, sibling, friend or neighbour.

But if someone relies on your help because they need extra support, you could be an unpaid carer. Recognising that is the first step towards understanding the support you may be entitled to – including a carer’s assessment.

Mytime illustration showing people supporting one another
Caring can look ordinary.
You don't need to call yourself a carer. You don't have to live together. You don't have to provide personal care.
Does this sound like you?

Caring is often hidden inside everyday life.

You might not think of these things as caring. You might simply think of them as helping someone you love or care about.

Everyday support

Check on someone regularly

Making sure they're safe, okay and have what they need.

Health

Help with appointments

Booking visits, going with them, collecting prescriptions or helping manage medication.

Emotional

You're the person they rely on

Listening, reassuring, keeping them company or helping them through difficult days.

Practical

Help with everyday jobs

Shopping, cooking, cleaning, washing, transport or paying bills.

Personal

Help them manage day to day

Supporting someone to wash, dress, eat, move around or stay independent.

Family

Give extra support at home

Looking after a child, sibling or another family member who needs more support.

Organising

Keep everything moving

Managing care, paperwork, finances, calls, appointments or arrangements.

That feeling

Wonder how they'd cope without you

If that thought feels familiar, the support you provide may be more significant than you realise.

You don't have to do everything to be a carer.

An unpaid carer is someone who regularly helps another person who couldn't manage as well without that support.

You might support someone because of illness, disability, mental health difficulties, addiction, a long-term condition or because they're getting older.

You could live with them or somewhere else. You could care every day or at particular times. You might be balancing caring with a job, education or your own family.

It isn't about having a job title. It's about the role you play in someone's life.

Quick carer check

Could you be an unpaid carer?

Tick anything that sounds like you. This is just a quick self-check – nothing you select here is stored or sent to us.

In an ordinary week, do you…

Choose as many as you like. There are no right or wrong answers.

Where do you live?

Choose your area so we can point you to the right carer’s assessment route.

And where does Mytime fit?

Support for your caring role. Time for you.

A carer’s assessment is about understanding your needs as an unpaid carer. Mytime is different: it creates opportunities for carers to enjoy a break, experience or a little time away from the caring role.

“I just help them.”

If somebody relies on that help, you may be doing more than you realise. Recognising your caring role can open the door to support – and to opportunities such as Mytime.